Book Review: What if the best mindset in self defense isn’t the strong will or strong mind, but the unpredictable, flexible mind?

Rethinking how we conceiver of mindset in self defense. I’m reading the second book written by Maija Soderholm. She is associated with Rory Miller and his group of people among self-defense and martial arts circles. Thing is a very common talking point in self defense circles is attack first, attack hard before they do it